Secret for a perfect relationship2 Secret for a perfect relationshipEstablishing a healthy foundation in which you can build a relationship upon is a challenging endeavor that many of us struggle with. Finding a balance where we can grow as individuals, together, in the context of a relationship is a complex undertaking. Even harder is when knowing to recognize that a relationship is over. In my person experience, it has been harder to end a relationship than it has to begin one. Knowing how to act after breaking up is awkward at best, too. Do you text your ex back when they’ve contacted you? Is it better to remain distance in order to process your emotions or do you try to bridge the emotional gap that has grown between you and them. I have struggled with the idea of trying to be friends with those that I have been in a relationship with. There is a reason that we were in a relationship in the first place.